Blame The World Syndrome
I will start by saying this "when you go to point the finger remember pointing that 1 at someone else leaves 3 pointing back at you"
Its sadly coming to my attention that the "Blame The World Syndrome" is spreading. It seems as no one is immune.
As adults we really must take a long hard look in our mirrors! (find your mirror! Thanks Gwen)
Who is it thats staring back at you? Is it someone to be proud of? Is it someone you cant even bear to look square in the eyes? A person full of shame and regret?
With the new year fast approaching many of us are reflective on our lives and the past years progressions and mis-steps.
But what we must realize we cant beat our selves up because things didnt go as planned. Remember what they say "You wanna make God laugh, tell him your plans"
But with that being said we also mustnt place the blame on others for our misfortunes.
Its becoming the norm that rather than man/woman up we are blaming everybody else for why we missed the mark.
We have to do better people Seriously! We have to start taking accountability and responsibility for ourselves and stop attempting to pass the buck.
Exactly how old is tooo old to blame your parents for you not being the man/woman you could be? Imjusayin if your over 30 give it up.
Ive come across this way too often where people are content in blaming everybody and their mama (pun intended)
Come on! Call me insensitive but we all have hurdles to jump over in life, everybody has a story. But how exactly do you expect to get passed your past if you keep re-reading the same page, over and over and over again! Anybody can sit and find fault (complain) find remedy! Turn the damn page!!!!Move On!
Im sorry in advance for whomever I may offend with the next round of statements consider yourselves warned.
If you had a baby or babies and now are constantly stuck with them, ummmm hello you chose to have them. you cant complain and blame other pepole cause they dont wanna watch your kids! Either find and pay a babysitter, or consider yourself a homebody! having children isnt the end of the world. But its your responsibility.
If you have gone to jail and now tecnology has passed you by, and you cant even work a dvd player. Or your record is so long nobody wants to hire you at first glance. This is nobodies fault but your own Sorry. But you commited the crime and sad to say are still suffering behind it.
Stop placing blame on others and realize what you need to do, the resources are out there but they arent just going to fall in your lap.
The Bible says count it all good! meaning that its bad right now but it will work for the better. Things must fall apart in order to be re built on solid ground! Things happen for a reason, take the time to find the lesson and the blessing not the blame!
There is no Blessing without a Battle
the Bigger the Battle the Bigger the Blessing!
And while i have your attention
Newsflash looks will not get you everywhere because after they have looked at you, you must be able to open your mouth and say something that makes a bit of sense!(this message was brought to you by the letter S for Syn ;) )
I will start by saying this "when you go to point the finger remember pointing that 1 at someone else leaves 3 pointing back at you"
Its sadly coming to my attention that the "Blame The World Syndrome" is spreading. It seems as no one is immune.
As adults we really must take a long hard look in our mirrors! (find your mirror! Thanks Gwen)
Who is it thats staring back at you? Is it someone to be proud of? Is it someone you cant even bear to look square in the eyes? A person full of shame and regret?
With the new year fast approaching many of us are reflective on our lives and the past years progressions and mis-steps.
But what we must realize we cant beat our selves up because things didnt go as planned. Remember what they say "You wanna make God laugh, tell him your plans"
But with that being said we also mustnt place the blame on others for our misfortunes.
Its becoming the norm that rather than man/woman up we are blaming everybody else for why we missed the mark.
We have to do better people Seriously! We have to start taking accountability and responsibility for ourselves and stop attempting to pass the buck.
Exactly how old is tooo old to blame your parents for you not being the man/woman you could be? Imjusayin if your over 30 give it up.
Ive come across this way too often where people are content in blaming everybody and their mama (pun intended)
Come on! Call me insensitive but we all have hurdles to jump over in life, everybody has a story. But how exactly do you expect to get passed your past if you keep re-reading the same page, over and over and over again! Anybody can sit and find fault (complain) find remedy! Turn the damn page!!!!Move On!
Im sorry in advance for whomever I may offend with the next round of statements consider yourselves warned.
If you had a baby or babies and now are constantly stuck with them, ummmm hello you chose to have them. you cant complain and blame other pepole cause they dont wanna watch your kids! Either find and pay a babysitter, or consider yourself a homebody! having children isnt the end of the world. But its your responsibility.
If you have gone to jail and now tecnology has passed you by, and you cant even work a dvd player. Or your record is so long nobody wants to hire you at first glance. This is nobodies fault but your own Sorry. But you commited the crime and sad to say are still suffering behind it.
Stop placing blame on others and realize what you need to do, the resources are out there but they arent just going to fall in your lap.
The Bible says count it all good! meaning that its bad right now but it will work for the better. Things must fall apart in order to be re built on solid ground! Things happen for a reason, take the time to find the lesson and the blessing not the blame!
There is no Blessing without a Battle
the Bigger the Battle the Bigger the Blessing!
And while i have your attention
Newsflash looks will not get you everywhere because after they have looked at you, you must be able to open your mouth and say something that makes a bit of sense!(this message was brought to you by the letter S for Syn ;) )
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