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Misery LOVES Company

We all have heard the saying time and time again "Misery Loves Company"
But do we really get what it means?
Now most people aren't ever going to admit they are miserable. As I have said in the past many of us live behind masks. Because we don't want others to know that deep down we do suffer.

Now with that being said, I have had to learn the hard way that a lot of us don't know how to handle our dissatisfaction with life.
As I have also said before Happiness isn't a destination but a choice!

Negative energy spreads faster than Cancer!
Negative people will infect you with their bad aura so easily and you sometimes won't even realize what has come over you.
Have you ever sat and listened to a friend go on and on about their negative situation and by the end of the conversation Your whole attitude has changed. Consider yourself INFECTED!

We must learn to protect our spirits.
And in protecting our spirits sometimes it means cutting off some friends even some family members. Sometimes you have to love certain folks from a distance because they are toxic to your spirit.
And keep in mind a person with a negative spirit isn't going to jump for joy when you have something positive going on in your life.
So don't be surprised, when you call to share your good news and the only response you get is "ummmm" or when in person they give you the stomach virus face!
I've learned that I don't need anyone to co-sign or validate my happiness! And neither do you!
Embrace the new you regardless if others don't. Because as the negative people drop off like flies, new positive people will emerge in your life who are on the same path as you.

Negativity is an infectious disease, please stay vaccinated with all things positive!

ByTheWay...... Misery LOVES company! Accompany No One Imjusayin

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