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Self Esteem

Self Esteem, simple concept right? I wonder? I once heard a comic say "How can I mess up how you feel about you?" And he was right how can another person mess up how you feel about yourself? Simple if the bad feelings are already there, then what others say just adds fuel to the already burning flames.
What others think about you is none of your business. Your opinion of yourself is what matters.
So keep a positive outlook about yourself flaws and all! Show yourself Love! Pat yourself on the back and say "Good Job" Don't wait for others to validate your worth. Your worth is based on you and not them! There is nothing wrong with buying yourself flowers or treating yourself to something nice.
 Don't let the opinions of others spoil who you are.

Remember this They Hate you because They Ain't You!

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